Friend,
“Children are great observers and terrible interpreters.” Jason Wilson
I’ve been thinking about this quote and you a lot recently. I can’t help but believe that this is true.
Why did you think that it (the divorce, the abuse, the failure) was your fault?
Why do you still hear the laughter of other kids and think that everyone is still laughing at you?
Why do you carry around this burden of a false belief that you’ve carried for decades?
You have been carrying around the weight of self-blame, simply because your seven-year-old self misinterpreted a major life event.
What if you could lose that weight? What if you could re-interpret that “it”? What if you were free?
As your friend, few things would make me happier.
Love,
Aaron